A True Friendship
Greg Large ’90 was an accomplished high school track athlete set to continue his athletic and academic career at Army. Following the passing of his father in May of 1985, Large’s life, and plans, changed. He ended up at Penn State as a 110m and 400m hurdles athlete on the track & field team.
“Penn State rescued my college career and gave me an opportunity,” explained Large. “When I first arrived, I showed up every day, but mentally I wasn’t there. It was the great support system, including Tek, that helped me get through the tough time that followed the passing of my father.”
Large, Tek, and their teammates always had each other’s backs. Practices, road trips, grueling meet days, and everything in between bonded them in ways that only teammates could understand.
“We were a group of guys who competed at a very high level, we rooted for each other, we competed against each other, and pushed each other at practice – through that we had a lot of success,” said Bob Gifford ’89, a four-year letterman and teammate of Tek and Large. “You don't go through that process unless you have each other's backs. You support each other and you grind it out, you work really hard, and Tek was one of those guys that pushed his teammates at every level.”
The bond was unbreakable, both before and after the tragic accident that would alter Tek’s life forever. It was the summer of 1989 when Tek and several teammates were gathered for the Fourth of July at a teammate’s house. A severe spinal cord injury suffered from a swimming accident at that gathering would leave Tek paralyzed from the chest down.
Both the immediate aftermath and the year that followed the accident was a test of strength for all involved, and a true demonstration of a community and a team coming together.
Large was set to move on from Penn State prior to the accident, but instead chose to return for another season with an additional purpose: to help Tek, a State College native, and the Kleban family in any way he could throughout the year. He was given his scholarship back by head coach Harry Groves for the season and nominated by his teammates as a team captain.
“We were all coping and trying to support each other, but most importantly, Tek, in every way that we could that year after the accident,” said Large. “The camaraderie, the community of the team, and just seeing how everybody stepped up in their own way to support Tek and the Kleban family was something that I know I’ll be forever grateful for – for having had the privilege to be part of it, but most importantly to see the humanity and the kindness of the Penn State community, State College community, alumni and all who stepped up in support.”